News reports say that Rihanna and Chris Brown are back together again. The news has led some people to speak out against her and point fingers at her for walking back into an abusive relationship.
But the truth is, Rihanna is not to blame for what happened. And as much as we may not like it and think it’s wrong, if she decides to go back into the relationship that is her decision. There are many reasons why victims return to their abusers. Regardless, Rihanna’s case confirms that it doesn’t matter who you are or how many resources you have at your reach; it’s still not easy to end an abusive relationship.
If you know someone who returned to an abusive partner, don’t judge them, blame them or abandon them. It’s important to continue to offer your support. Remind them that they deserve to be in a safe and healthy relationship, free from violence and free from fear. But above all respect their decisions even if you don’t agree with them. The most important thing you can do is let them know you will be there to help when they need it.
Find out what else you can do to help a friend who is in an abusive relationship. Remember, being involved in an abusive relationship can be isolating for a victim. You can show them they are not alone.
If you're in immediate crisis, call 911 or the National Dating Abuse Helpline at 1.866.331.9474 or chat now:
